Saturday, August 25, 2007

Simple questions....

Why is it that we ever say "noone understands me" ? Is everybody else understanding everybody?
Noone can understand anyone in reality.It takes a lifetime to understand ourselves.

Why is there so much attraction in mystery that we are often compelled to complicate simple truths of life? Any feeling, be it jealousy, hatred, pain, frustration, vanity, guilt have been felt by everyone at some point of their life. If you put it differently, it won't change its reality.

Why do we begin to look at others through our own angle and judge them so brutally? why cant we just let them be...just as we want to be? DO we like people criticising us? Why do we do it to others then?


Why do we want answers at all? Why do we want to know everything thats happening and go down into the depths of everything we come across?Sometimes its okhay, to take it easy. And let things be.

22 comments:

prachi said...

Things change. So do we.

Colours fade.So do we?
yes...and dats why..noone can understand anyone...
I agree..:)


The brain-less end, filled with ineffable monstrosity, filled with poisonous memories that we always wanted to escape from, filled with melancholic nothingness...is what attracts mystery...because that which is bound not to change...gains more attention...as your previous question says....;-)

Dunno about the third point...i mean it always happens..and you cant help it!damn....

Why do we want the answers...for liberating the numbness i guess...though sometimes..it is okhay to take things easy...actualy most of the times it is...

*Yo*...

Prachi said...

Noone can understand anyone in reality.It takes a lifetime to understand ourselves.
and aint it gud?
i mean...who wants to be understood neway...???
"...because that one who understand us enslave something in us...."
-kahlil gibran

Anonymous said...

:-)

Manee said...

@anonymous

??

Manee said...

@Prachi


I heard it somewhere...80% of the things we worry about never really happen! And the rest of 20% have to happen...so why bother to worry?

Its a disease.Thinking I mean.And I almost suffer from it...though sometimes it is the drug that keeps me from dying!

:-)

a dash of ash said...

...sooner or later..i got to choose ..:)

a dash of ash said...

its a learning experience..to know what to think and what not to :)
we've all been hopelessly diseased at tymz..huh ??
those were SOME days...

Manee said...

:D ...growing up honey...(a decade early though!)...

Prakash said...

I dont kno if it happens to every one but for me i have lost the habit to expect something from someone,no one really cares atleast no one who is not in love with u. yes its ok to take it easy sometimes but when i think abt my future it's so hard for me to be positive coz my pessimism drives me to do the things that kill my now..........well i'm helpless;and i so hate being so.

jasmine said...

hi...

Prachi said...

The drug...just keeps us from dying...its side-effects are amazing...better than anything else...

*sigh....*


*sighs harder....*

I me myself said...

Read all your blogs... loved them (both Think and LoveTranscends.)

And really loved the rose-petal thing on your profile... so true....

I me myself said...

My profile is short because I don't know what to write there...

I me myself said...

and yes - I agree, we speak the same language... when I saw your blog, it was like looking into a mirror...

PS: I had another one (blog) which I have made private now... will try to post some of my more 'share'able compositions soon.

I me myself said...

I don't want to post my name on the blog. You can call 'A' :-)

My bday falls on 11 Mar, again I don't want to post this on my blog...

Prabhsharan Singh said...

hi manee.
pragati tld me dat u r a fabolous poetess, but after reading to all what u posted, my thinknin has changed.. u r an excellent writer as well. i even learnt many things from what u wrote and above all i got highly motivated by it... thanks making me read it and yes, i know i would really help me one day.
thanks.
bye
take care

arjun~the lonely guy said...

It takes a lifetime to understand ourselves.


why do u feel so ......i think tht if one cant understand himself/herself how the hell in the world the human can survive ....atleast u hav understand urself tht wat damn YOU ARE n wat do u WANT FROM YOURSELF....

n its the same case with u..after reading ur posts its easily understandable tht u completely understand urselve...n dunno knw why u r writing so differently...

nevertheless i appreciate ur writings .hats off

arjun~the lonely guy said...

Any feeling, be it jealousy, hatred, pain, frustration, vanity, guilt have been felt by everyone at some point of their life. If you put it differently, it won't change its reality...


ya its completely true tht everyone gets this feeling n its very often ...bt if u luk at ground reality wats the harm if the person doesnt wanna absorb them n only let them off like tht only bcoz tht makes him happy ...the person also knows tht it will nt change the reality bbt wats the harm if he doesnt want tht those feelings sud over capture him n he goes into sorrow n anger .which will destrot him further..

Manee said...

@ arjun (1)

Well, the truth is that we all know ourselves the best. But not completely. Tell me, do you see yourself/expect from yourself exactly the way it was say 5 years ago?
At least I dont... I keep discovering new things about myself everyday. Like I never thought I could bear the things I randomly put myself through. Like I could write the way I do.

But I guess there are more things to bear.Or be written.

:)

Manee said...

@ Arjun (2)

Here, my aim was at those people who claim that all the feelings that they are feeling at the moment are exclusive to them and no one can really understand what they are going through. All I meant was that such a claim is hollow.

arjun~the lonely guy said...

wat i wud be 5 years down the line is nt the question of tht i understand myself or not ......
as sum wud say its destiny n sum wud say its ur deeds tht decide ur future(i wud nt debate on tht).bt certainly its nt how u understand uselve deciodes wat u r going 2 face 5 years down the line ...

arjun~the lonely guy said...

i think i mis interepreted wat u wanted to say ....or u cud nt write properly wat u wanted .bt after ur explanation i cn easily make out wat u r pointing at ........